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Ask A Man 28 April '26: Why is my partner not interested in sex with me?'

Anonymous says her relationship is generally fine but their sex life is problematic. She says she’s the one who always initiates, but he often rejects her advances towards him. This has been a problem for years in their relationship and she's not sure how to live with his lack of sexual interest. 

Ask A Man: MMA26 Edition - Part 2

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

Ask a Man: MMA26 Edition Part 1

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

Ask A Man 22 April '26: 'Am I over-focusing on our new baby and ignoring my partner?'

Ask A Man 21 April '26: 'Why do my partner's keep dying?'

Anonymous lost her husband in 2018, she then dated someone new, but they also passed away in 2025.  Following the passing of her second husband, she found out that he had been unfaithful towards her and had a side. These experiences have affected her perspective on love and relationships, as she wonders whether she’s meant to be in a relationship.

Ask A Man 20 April '26: 'I'm tired of my partner's lack of hygiene.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for a while now and says their relationship is generally great and he’s a good partner to her.  The problem she has with him is his lack of good personal hygiene, as she says he doesn’t take regular baths, everything smells and he doesn’t even take care of his living environment.

Ask A Man 17 April '26: 'Is he having an affair with the mother of his child?'

Anonymous is pregnant and she recently found the mother of her partner’s child at his house and was left confused by this situation.  She says they were naked when she arrived in the morning but they were in between taking baths. She confronted him about this but he claimed that it’s the mother of his child, she’s in town because their child is sick and she needed a place to sleep…

Ask A Man 16 April '26: 'My wife watch me nearly die and didn't help.'

Anonymous is in his early 50s and has been married to his wife for 20 years now.  He has been diagnosed with a disease that causes acid refluxes that lead to him choking in his sleep. He spoke to his wife about what to do if this happens while their sleeping but he says there was an instance in which it occurred, however, as he choked, she just looked at him and didn’t assist him. He also feels like she’s not interested in being intimate with him, as he’s the one who’s always initiating while she never does.  He recently fell illl….

Ask A Man 15 April '26: 'She makes me feel like I'm not good enough for her.'

Anonymous and his partner recently  separated after facing some issues in their relationship. His partner is now back in his life and they are now back together.  The issues that led to the break down of their relationship don’t seem to have been resolved and they keep getting back to into the same conflicts and arguments.  Anonymous says they’ve gone through a lot together and he wants to work on this relationship but he is now wondering if there is a way forward. 

Ask A Man 14 April '26: 'Struggling to commit following my divorce'

Anonymous was previously married for 6 years despite the fact his wife had cheated on him early on in their marriage. He tried to move on but he eventually retaliated and also cheated on his wife.  Their relationship broke down and after his wife cheated on him the second time, they got divorced.  He has since tried to move on, but has struggled to stay in relationships with the other women he’s been with since getting divorced.  He’s not sure if he’s trying to move on too soon or if he’ll ever be able to build a long lasting healthy relationship. 

Ask A Man 13 April '26: 'My partner's insecurities are too much.'

Anonymous dated a guy back in 2023 for about four months before their relationship ended. They rekindled things last year but it seems his past is haunting their relationship.  He is insecure and never seems to believe that she has good intentions in their relationship, and this has led to them having several altercations…

Ask a Man 10 April '26: 'Did he really break up with me because of bad breath?'

Anonymous is/was in a long distance relationship with her partner.  She doesn’t have a huge appetite and eats small portions. While she was recently visiting her partner they got into an argument because of her eating patterns, with him saying that her breath smells bad as result of her not eating enough.  He then said he can’t live with the odour of her breath, she left his place, tried reaching out later to speak to him about this but he doesn’t seem interested in discussing the matter further. 

Ask A Man 9 April '26: 'My mental health struggles are killing my relationship.'

Anonymous met his partner when he was going through a low moment in his life, he says she was very supportive of him and helping him out financially. He’s going through a lot mentally and as a result, he’s struggling to be a good partner to his girlfriend. He loves her a lot but finds himself spiralling and thinks he needs a break to find his bearings . 

Ask A Man 8 April '26: 'I don't feel see & heard by my wife.'

Anonymous and his wife have been together for about 22 years, and have been married for about 13 years now.  He feels like his partner is “self righteous”, doesn’t give him an ear and always thinks she’s right in any conflict they have in their relationship. He also feels like she doesn’t give him space to express his emotions.  They are always arguing and their conflicts have gone out of hand, even happening in front of their kids.  He’s exhausted of this toxic relationship and environment they now find themselves in.

Ask A Man 7 April '24: 'How to rebuild trust after infidelity?'

Anonymous and his wife have been married for about 18 years now and they have three children together.  Along the way, he cheated on his partner about three times and he was caught each time. His wife then cheated on him in retaliation. Things got messy and about 5 years ago she left their married home with their children, but after two months away, she returned back to their home and they got back together. Things have been ok for the last five years but they are struggling to rebuild trust in their relationship. 

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