Ask a Man 28 Aug '25: 'I'm pregnant with my boss and lover's child.'

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall.  She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner.  Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve their finances, he’s not very responsive. He doesn’t seem to be interested in investing in their future and that’s frustrating anonymous.

Ask a Man 27 Aug '25: 'My partner is not ambitious'

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall.  She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner.  Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve their finances, he’s not very responsive. He doesn’t seem to be interested in investing in their future and that’s frustrating anonymous.

Ask a Man 25 Aug '25: 'Should I leave him after everything we've built?'

Ask a Man 21 Aug '25: 'My side is pregnant & I'm struggling to conceive with my partner.'

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now after knowing each other at work for about 3 years as friends, as she was in a relationship at the time. They started dating well after she broke up with the father of her child. They agreed to have a child together from the beginning of their relationship, but they’ve struggled to conceive.  He cheated on her with another lady starting late last year and that lady is now pregnant.

Ask a Man 20 Aug '25: 'Why am I abusive towards my partner?'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now, after coming out of a 13-year relationship that produced two children.  This weekend, when she happened to be using his phone, she found voice notes from some other lady that were suspicious, she got angry and hit her partner.  She comes from a toxic and violent background which she thinks has led to her aggressive behaviour towards her partner.  She’s hit her partner on two separate occasions and feels terrible about this. She doesn’t want to continue reacting this way and wonders how she can fix herself and repair their relationship.

Ask a Man 19 Aug '25: 'My partner accused me of using witchcraft on him.'

Anonymous has been with her husband for 6 years now and they have two children together.  Her partner started acting off towards her about 3 years ago and then at some point he even stopped sleeping in their room without much of an explanation.  He eventually opened up to anonymous and revealed that he wasn’t comfortable around her as he felt like she has bad energies and those energies are affecting him spiritually, going as far as calling her a witch.  They are now separated, after she moved out of their home. He wants her back but anonymous says he’s not addressing his spiritual issues, as he’s not even speaking to his family and thinks everyone around him wants to dim his spirit.

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Ask a Man 15 Aug '25: 'I forgave is infidelity but now things are weird between us.'

Anonymous and her partner have been together for seven years now and they have two children together.  She found out that he was cheating on her last year but she forgave him after he made an effort to win her back, and they are now engaged.  Things have now gotten weird in their relationship and he has become sexually avoidant. She’s not sure what to read into this.

Ask A Man 14 Aug '25: 'Worries about my partner's child moving in with us.'

Anonymous has been with her partner since the beginning of last year and they have one child together.  They moved in together, six months into their relationship, and her partner’s brother also moved in with them.  Her partner has other two other children that live else where, however, her partner has now suggested that one of his children move in with them but she’s worried about the financial impact of this as they currently live on his salary, with some support from his brother. 

Ask a Man 13 Aug '25: 'My large manhood is scaring potential partners.''

Anonymous has a large package and it’s causing trouble in his love life.  The women he likes never want to continue being in a relationship with him because of their sexual experience with him. However, the women he meets at bars for fun enjoy his larger size but he’s not interested in a lot of them.  Anonymous wants to know how to deal with this. 

Ask a Man 12 Aug '25: 'The father of my children wants to introduce me to his wife.'

Anonymous met a guy back in 2016 and after two years of dating they decided to have a baby, and they ended up having twins.  Her partner questioned the paternity of the twins, they got a paternity test done and it was confirmed that they are his children. Anonymous felt disrespected by him and ended their relationship, after months of tension in their relationship as a result of the questions regarding the paternity of the children.  Seven months after they broke up, she found out that he had gotten married to someone else post their break-up, she confronted him about this but it ended up with them having an affair and having another child.  He now wants to introduce anonymous and their children to his wife so that they can have a healthy relationship. She doesn’t know what to read into this. 

Ask A Man 11 Aug '25: 'Am I selfish for leaving my partner who can't bare children?'

Anonymous is ten years younger than his partner, she has three children and he has one daughter.  He would like to have more children of his own, however, she can’t physically bare more children and he would like to have a male child of his own who will carry his legacy.  He loves his partner and appreciates her contribution to his personal & professional development, however, this is a major drawback of staying in this relationship. 

Ask A Man 08 Aug '25: 'My partner says I pushed him away by not financially supporting him.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 3 years now and they moved in together about a year ago.  Her partner has been struggling financially for a while now and has accused anonymous of not supporting him financially and not spending on their household.  She has now found out that he’s been cheating on her with another lady who he says supports him financially. Anonymous wonders if his complaints about her lack of support are valid. 

Ask a Man 06 Aug '25: 'My cheating partner doesn't want to use a condom.'

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 8 years and have been married for two of those years.  Her husband cheated on her with 7 different women, she reported this to their families, they resolved it and they’ve now moved on with their relationship. She started using PrEP to protect herself she’s now in an interim and they need to use condoms, but her husband is refusing to do this.

Ask a Man 05 July '25: 'Made up but struggling to move on.'

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 7 years now and they have a child together. It’s been rocky in their relationship with infidelity happening on both sides. At some point they addressed this situation in their relationship, forgave each other and decided to move forward in their relationship.  However, she feels like their relationship is not the same anymore after all they’ve been through. They both want to make it work, but currently it seems to not be going anywhere. 

Ask a Man 04 Aug '25: 'I'm confused by my partner.'

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 5 years now and they have a child together.  Their relationship has been messy over the last two years and his partner now wants to leave him because she feels like he doesn’t communicate properly in the relationship and that he has anger issues…

Ask a Man 01 Aug '25: 'Should I move on while still getting over my ex?'

Anonymous with her ex partner for about nine years and they have two children together. Their relationship ended after she cheated on her partner and he found out.  She’s now in a new relationship and the guy is amazing to her and her kids. However,  she feels like she’s still healing from the wounds of her previous relationship. 

Ask a Man 31 July '25: 'Is he still with the mother of his children?'

Anonymous has been with her boyfriend since late last year and they work together.  She works in HR and when he had to apply for family responsibility leave in her office, she found out that his ex had just given birth to his child and he had been hiding that pregnancy from her. Another issue in their relationship is family planning, anonymous wants her partner to share in the costs of the contraceptive she wants to use but he doesn’t agree.  She’s wondering if he’s lying about the relationship he has with the mother of his children and whether she’s unreasonable for wanting him to contribute to the contraceptive. 

Ask a Man 30 July '25: 'Can I build a family the father of my child?'

Anonymous met a guy back in 2017, they immediately fell in love and, soon after they started dating, they had a child together.  The guy then moved overseas to pursue his studies and during his time abroad their relationship took a turn for the worst and it faded away.  Seven years later he’s back in the country and she is now back together with him, but feels like he’s not present in their relationship, and he’s not really there for their daughter, who he hasn’t been supporting this entire time.  Anonymous took him back in so they could be a family but she feels like it’s not working out the way it should.

Ask a Man 29 July '25: 'Is it wrong to do favours for my ex?'