Ask A Man 21 May '26: ' Am I wrong for divorcing him?'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 9 years now, and says things were generally fine between them until she found out last year that he actually has children from a previous relationship that he didn’t tell her about.  She was upset about this and confronted him, to which he responded by saying that she should be happy that he married her instead of the mother of his children.  She is now in the process of divorcing him, however, the people in her life are calling her out, saying she’s overreacting by divorcing him. 

Ask A Man 20 May '26: 'Is the love bite a sign that she's moved on?'

Anonymous says he persued his current partner for about two years before they eventually started dating.  Their relationship was going well and she fell pregnant after they had agreed to have a baby together. His partner ended up aborting the baby as she was worried about how it would affect her mental health as she’s suffering from a mental condition. This frustrated anonymous….

Ask A Man 19 May '26: 'Is he a player or just playing along for the boys?'

Anonymous started dating her partner about three years ago and says her partner cheated on her, with his ex, early on in their relationship but they overcame this and moved on with their relationship.  She recently found texts on his phone to his friend where he was sharing with his friend about meeting up with another girl.  She confronted him about this and he said it’s not something that actually happened or that he went through with, he was just trying to impress his friends, who apparently thrive on that kind of behaviour.  She’s thinking of breaking up with him, but is not sure if thats the right choice. 

Ask A Man 15 May '26: 'She married the man she claimed was her father.'

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady last year and things were going until she confessed that she was actually in a relationship with an older man that she had previously claimed was her father.  She told anonymous that she was going to break things off with the guy but he’s not sure whether she ever really tried to break up with him.  Fast forward to this year, he found out that she is actually getting married to this other man, however, they hooked up the night before her lobola…

Ask A Man 18 May '26: 'He doesn't want to contribute to my household.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 months now, they are both in their 30s, they have one child each, she lives with her child and he lives at his family home with his parents.  He often visits her place on weekends when they are both free and while this arrangement initially worked she feels like he’s become a major cost to her pocket. She brought this up and ask him to contribute a little more to her household but he didn’t like her request and it has resulted in him breaking up with her. 

Ask A Man 14 May '26: 'Does he really love me or just likes having her around.'

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated. They’ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman.  Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she’s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman.  She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around. 

Ask A Man 13 May '26: 'Has he always been toying with me?'

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career.  When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties. However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family.  They now have an 8 month-old baby but he’s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to. 

Ask A Man 12 May '26: 'Is he really my mine?'

Anonymous has been with a man she’s “in love” with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s.  The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either. She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure things out in his life. She’s wondering if she’s the only women in his life. 

Ask A Man 11 May '26: 'Can we fix our mess?'

Anonymous has been with his partner and the mother of his children for about 16 years now.  Things were generally fine between them until they had their first child in 2017, and says there was a rift between them and their families. They were able to get through all of that and even had their second child in 2021.  In 2023 he caught her cheating when he saw her kissing another man. She initially denied this but they ended up breaking up.  He moved out of their home and went back to his family home. Things fell apart in both their lives and he invited her to come stay at this family home with their children. 

Ask A Man 08 May '26: 'Is she still upset about my cheating?'

Anonymous met a lady back in 2018 and things moved quickly between them, as they even moved in together after only a month of dating.  He cheated on her at some point in the relationship but they were able to get past this. After she moved to another city her attitude towards him changed, even when she moved back she was just not the same person any more and was very distant.  She broke things off with him last year and they went their separate ways. Months later she called him and they are now back together but things are a bit dry between them. 

Ask A Man 07 May '26: 'My partner is obsessed with Instagram "baddies".'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now and they’ve known each other for about 10 years.  She says he’s a great partner and does most things in their relationship right however, the problem they have is social media.  He follows a lot of “baddies” and is always liking pictures of half naked women who are posing provocatively. She notes that it’s also women that look nothing like her, which leaves her wondering if that’s what he actually prefers.  She’s confronted him about this behaviour and while he’s said he would change, he hasn’t. A week ago she tried to make him account for this but he got upset and they haven’t spoken since.

Ask A Man 6 May '26: 'Shenanigans at church'

Anonymous and her partner, guy no.1, have been together for about 11 years now.  She says they met at church and when they started dating she didn’t realise that he was dating other women in their church. This complicated things between them and she ended up breaking things off with him and started dating guy no.2, who was dating her guy no.1’s side-girl.  She fell pregnant with guy no.2’s child but things didn’t workout there and guy no.1 wanted her back despite the fact that she was pregnant with another men’s child.  He took her in with her three children, including children from her previous marriage and the child she has with guy no.2.  She says their relationship is now fine but he doesn’t seem to get along with her first born daughter.

Ask A Man 5 May '26: 'Why is he still in contact with his "former" side.'

Anonymous found out last year that her longterm partner had been having an affair with another woman for many years while they were together.  She broke up with him at that point but after months of separation he came back and persuaded her to get back together with him.  Their relationship has been great since getting back together, however, about a week ago, she found out that he’s still in contact with the lady that led to their breakup…

Ask A Man 4 May '26: 'I Think My Partner's Side has Bewitched Him.'

Anonymous started dating a guy in 2017 and their relationship was ok for the most part in the beginning stages. Years later she fell pregnant and says during this time she lost interest in her partner and didn’t even want him to touch her. She believes this behaviour drove him into the arms of another woman and he also ended up impregnating her.  She found out about this, they worked through it and continued with their relationship, however, he can’t seem to let this other woman go.  Anonymous feels like she’s cast a spell on him as he’s changed a lot since being with her, and is not only neglecting their relationship, but he’s also neglecting his career and life in general.

Ask A Man 30 April '26: 'He's dating someone else, but my prophet says he's meant for me.'

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been dating her current partner for about 8 months now. She says this partner fits the description of the person a prophet once told her she would meet one day At some point in their relationship she found evidence that he had someone else, and he confessed to this after she confronted him about it.  She tried to break-up with him after this revelation but she went back to consult the same prophet who told her she can’t leave him as he is the one for her.

Ask A Man 29 April '26: 'Is my wife still into me or not?'

Anonymous cheated on his partner two years into their relationship back in 2014. They went through therapy following this incident but the process led to him finding out that she had cheated on him as well.  They moved on with their relationship but he says she continued to bring up his cheating and their relationship broke down, when he took ill, they separated.  Things were fine between them during the separation and they would even get intimate during this time.  They got back together after the completion of his new house, but he says they live separate lives in the same house. To the public it seems they have the perfect relationship but nothing is happening at home, even sexually.

Ask A Man 28 April '26: Why is my partner not interested in sex with me?'

Anonymous says her relationship is generally fine but their sex life is problematic. She says she’s the one who always initiates, but he often rejects her advances towards him. This has been a problem for years in their relationship and she's not sure how to live with his lack of sexual interest. 

Ask A Man: MMA26 Edition - Part 2

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

Ask a Man: MMA26 Edition Part 1

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

Ask A Man 22 April '26: 'Am I over-focusing on our new baby and ignoring my partner?'