Ask A Man 16 April

Ask A Man 15 April '26: 'She makes me feel like I'm not good enough for her.'

Anonymous and his partner recently  separated after facing some issues in their relationship. His partner is now back in his life and they are now back together.  The issues that led to the break down of their relationship don’t seem to have been resolved and they keep getting back to into the same conflicts and arguments.  Anonymous says they’ve gone through a lot together and he wants to work on this relationship but he is now wondering if there is a way forward. 

Ask A Man 14 April '26: 'Struggling to commit following my divorce'

Anonymous was previously married for 6 years despite the fact his wife had cheated on him early on in their marriage. He tried to move on but he eventually retaliated and also cheated on his wife.  Their relationship broke down and after his wife cheated on him the second time, they got divorced.  He has since tried to move on, but has struggled to stay in relationships with the other women he’s been with since getting divorced.  He’s not sure if he’s trying to move on too soon or if he’ll ever be able to build a long lasting healthy relationship. 

Ask A Man 13 April '26: 'My partner's insecurities are too much.'

Anonymous dated a guy back in 2023 for about four months before their relationship ended. They rekindled things last year but it seems his past is haunting their relationship.  He is insecure and never seems to believe that she has good intentions in their relationship, and this has led to them having several altercations…

Ask a Man 10 April '26: 'Did he really break up with me because of bad breath?'

Anonymous is/was in a long distance relationship with her partner.  She doesn’t have a huge appetite and eats small portions. While she was recently visiting her partner they got into an argument because of her eating patterns, with him saying that her breath smells bad as result of her not eating enough.  He then said he can’t live with the odour of her breath, she left his place, tried reaching out later to speak to him about this but he doesn’t seem interested in discussing the matter further. 

Ask A Man 9 April '26: 'My mental health struggles are killing my relationship.'

Anonymous met his partner when he was going through a low moment in his life, he says she was very supportive of him and helping him out financially. He’s going through a lot mentally and as a result, he’s struggling to be a good partner to his girlfriend. He loves her a lot but finds himself spiralling and thinks he needs a break to find his bearings . 

Ask A Man 8 April '26: 'I don't feel see & heard by my wife.'

Anonymous and his wife have been together for about 22 years, and have been married for about 13 years now.  He feels like his partner is “self righteous”, doesn’t give him an ear and always thinks she’s right in any conflict they have in their relationship. He also feels like she doesn’t give him space to express his emotions.  They are always arguing and their conflicts have gone out of hand, even happening in front of their kids.  He’s exhausted of this toxic relationship and environment they now find themselves in.

Ask A Man 7 April '24: 'How to rebuild trust after infidelity?'

Anonymous and his wife have been married for about 18 years now and they have three children together.  Along the way, he cheated on his partner about three times and he was caught each time. His wife then cheated on him in retaliation. Things got messy and about 5 years ago she left their married home with their children, but after two months away, she returned back to their home and they got back together. Things have been ok for the last five years but they are struggling to rebuild trust in their relationship. 

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Ask A Man 1 April '26: 'How do I tell my crush I love her.'

Anonymous met a lady at her local clinic as a client, they spent a lot of time together and says she now finds her self having strong feelings for this lady.  She wants to share her feelings with the lady, but there are some complications…  

Ask A Man 31 March '26: 'Will we get over our past trauma?'

Anonymous started dating his partner a year ago, and says they both came into the relationship carrying a lot of relationship trauma and this led to them being paranoid and even spying on each other.  He loves his partner a lot but says his partner is struggling to trust him. He’s never cheated on her but says when they were going through some challenges in their relationship, she found an Instagram DM in which anonymous was asking for another lady’s number.  They separated after this incident but ended up getting back together. He says things haven’t been the same ever since, as she’s constantly scanning his phone and bringing up things from the past, despite what he describes as a change in his behaviour. 

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Ask A Man 26 March '26: 'My side-woman is back in my life and it's driving me crazy'

Anonymous called us in September last year  as he was caught between is main partner and his side, and couldn’t decide which one to forward with.  After he called us last year he decided to continue with his long-term partner and they got married.  Everything was fine until his ex-side girl reached out to him. They met, but now the side says she wants nothing to do with him. He says he was over her but after seeing her last week, all the feelings are now back.

Ask A Man 25 March '26: 'He left his wife for me but I'm worried'

Anonymous met a guy early in 2025 and after a lengthy talking stage, they started dating in March last year. Everything was going well in the relationship, but three months in,  she got a call from a woman who claimed to be this man’s wife and despite his initial denials, this was confirmed.

Ask A Man 24 March '26: 'My partner's bizarre accusations of infidelity.'

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about four years now and says things have been going relatively well between them.  She recently had a minor car accident and the doctors advised that she might experience some changes in her period as a result of the impact of the accident.  A week after the accident her and her partner had sex but shortly after this he accused her of cheating on him, saying that her sex with her felt different and her vagina had a different smell to what he’s used to.

Ask A Man 23 March '26: 'My ex wants to marry me but I'm in love with someone new'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 8 years now and they have two children together.  Things got tricky in their relationship and they broke things off. She moved on into a new relationship after she realised that the father of her children had already moved on.  The new partner is amazing and she feels like he ticks all the boxes. However, her long-term partner has now come back into her life, he proposed marriage to her and she has accepted.  She doesn’t know which guy to move forward with. 

Ask A Man 20 March '26: 'My partner has an alcohol problem and she's breastfeeding.'

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about three years. And says things were fine until he moved to another province because of work.  His partner seems to have developed a drinking problem and she is now drinking on a daily basis. He has confronted her about this, but she’s blamed her drinking on the fact that he’s now in a different province.  He doesn’t know how to deal with this especially because she’s currently breastfeeding their infant child.

Ask A Man 19 March '26: 'How to deal with my partner's unruly child'

Anonymous started dating her partner late last year after having a crush on her for many years.  After they decided to start dating, her partner revealed that she has a child, something anonymous wasn’t really comfortable with.  Despite this, they continued with their relationship but anonymous says her partner’s child is unruly and she doesn’t know how to deal with this as she feels like her partner is not teaching her child the right behaviour.

Ask A Man 18 March '26: 'He's focused on his main partner despite my pregnancy'

Anonymous met a guy late last year and they got involved in a casual relationship with each other despite the fact that they were each in relationships with other people.  Things got a bit more serious between her and this guy, while things ended between her and her partner.  She’s now pregnant with his child but says he’s ill treating her and not giving her the attention she deserves.