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Ask A Man 24 Aug '26: 'Has really changed from her cheating ways?'

Anonymous and his partner started dating in 2018 and broke up in 2022. They then got back together in 2023 and have been together ever since.  He recently found out that she had been having an affair with another man, after the same men told him and shared explicit pictures and videos as evidence of the affair.  He confronted her about it, she apologised and said that she was done with the guy and was willing to tell anonymous anything he wants to know about the affair, which allowed them to move forward with their relationship.  However, anonymous is struggling to move forward as he reflects on the extent of this betrayal…

Ask A Man 21 Aug '26: My current partner using my previous partner's against me'

Anonymous, who has been with her current partner for about six years, says she always knew their relationship wouldn’t end in marriage.  She’s a writer and has written books about her past abusive relationships, which her partner has read. However, she says that whenever they argue, he brings up her previous partners, claiming he understands why they treated her that way.

Ask A Man 20 Aug '26: 'Should I just accept that she's over our relationship?'

Anonymous broke with his girlfriend about two weeks ago, after going through a tough season in their three-year relationship.  He says they were experiencing a lot of stress in their relationship, she I. particular is currently studying so that was putting a lot of pressure on her.  Their sex life started taking a dip and this caused a major rift in their relationship, further pushing them away from each other…

Ask A Man 19 Aug '26: 'My new partner is short tempered & moody'

Anonymous is in her early forties and has 4 children, including one who’s living with cerebral palsy. She’s divorced and tried dating but found out that the guy was cheating on her so she ended it.  Fast forward to 26 May 2026, she met a guy  who is almost 10 year younger than her, they hit it off and she says he’s been an amazing partner towards her, very romantic and caring.  Her problem with him is that he’s short tempered and can very moody at times….

Ask A Man 18 Aug '26: 'My insecurities led to our relationship turning toxic'

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2022 and says things were great between them for the first two years but changed in 2024 after her partner’s father past away.  She says she started feeling insecure after he cut-off his dreadlocks and that caused a lot of turmoil between them, which eventually led to their relationship becoming toxic.  They broke up in May of this year, but continued to be friends and have a sexual relationship

Ask A Man 17 Aug '26: 'Does he really want to be with me?'

Anonymous met a guy a few years ago in a taxi and they would talk to each other which led to him helping her in finding a learnership.  She works close his workplace and he would even drive her to work everyday, and they ended up having a sexual relationship, however, cut him off afterwards as she didn’t enjoy being with him.  After a couple of weeks of avoiding him, she contacted him again as she didn’t have money for transport and he would drive her...

Ask A Man 14 Aug '26: 'My partner doesn't want me in contact with the father of my child'

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about three years. They were both married to other people before they started their relationship, she has one child from her marriage and he has three.  Her partner has a problem with the fact that she speaks to her ex-husband and father of her child, because he fears that she still has a romantic relationship with him. 

Ask A Man 13 Aug '26: '8 years later and we still live with our parents'

Anonymous has been with her boyfriend for about 8 years now and they have a child together.  She’s in her mid-twenties and he’s in his mid-thirties. They stay in separate houses, both at their parent’s homes.  After her grandparents advised that they should be married and living together for the sake of their child, anonymous’ boyfriend broke things off with her because of this.

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Ask A Man 11 Aug '26: 'Why am I attached to my toxic ex?'

Anonymous is in her early thirties and she is in a relationship with a man who is twenty years older than her.  She went through her partner’s phone months ago and found out that he was cheating. After confronting him about this he said she wasn’t mentally well since losing her father late  last year and she needed to to deal with that.  Months later she found out he was cheating again, and again 

Ask a Man 07 Aug '26: 'My wife is sleeping around with multiple men.'

Anonymous and his wife are married with two children, however, he recently realised that his wife has been having sex with multiple men and he even thinks some it is transactional.  He discovered this on her phone and he finds himself confused by the whole situation. Anonymous says when he previously realised she was sleeping with someone else, he suggested they make their relationship and open relationship, however, he feels like she’s taken that too far.

Ask A Man 06 Aug '26: 'My partner thinks I'm sleeping with my sister.'

Anonymous’ younger half-sister recently moved to his house as she could no longer live at res.  However, his girlfriend has expressed that she’s uncomfortable with him living with his sister suspecting that he might have an affair with his sister.  They fought about this and are now not really on speaking terms. He’s offended by this and doesn’t understand why his partner is reacting this way. 

Ask A Man 05 Aug '26: 'My man's wife is stalking me.'

Anonymous has been dating a married man for a while now, and his wife found out about three years ago, despite this, they continued with their relationship.  Her issue now is that she feels like the man’s wife is now keeping tabs on her movements and stalking her.  Anonymous initially ended things with him after his wife found out but he came saying his wife was ok with the situation. However, it doesn’t appear that way now and she’s not sure what to do. 

Ask A Man 04 Aug '26: 'Should I keep my past in the past?'

Anonymous says she made a pact with herself that she would like to keep her past in her past but she recently ran into a guy from her past.  Things didn’t end well between them, but it wasn’t too bad, as they were in a casual relationship. They spoke for a bit and she enjoyed the moment so much that she now wonders if it’s worth rekindling. 

Ask A Man 03 Aug '26: 'I'm happy to be a side, but he never has time for me.'

Anonymous met a guy a few months ago while at a funeral, they hit it off and ended up engaging in a one night stand.  He revealed to her that he has a partner and they have two children, but they continued chatting anyway, although that faded because she became a little bored of him.  They eventually ran into each other on Tik Tok and started talking again which led to them rekindling their relationship.  They’ve since met up a couple of times but she says he never seems to have time for her, and while she enjoys their sexual relationship, she wants more from him.

Ask A Man 31 July '26: 'Over his treatment of me'

Anonymous has been with her partner for 12 years and they’ve been married for 6 of those years. Their marriage happened as result of anonymous falling pregnant and they had one other child after getting married.  She’s found out a few times that he was cheating and when she addresses this and other issues in their relationship, he shuts her down and tells her that she should be more grateful of the things he has done for her. 

Ask A Man 30 July '26: 'Am I wrong for leaving him at his worst?'

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2020 and two years after being together she fell pregnant and they moved in together.  He’s always had a problem with over-drinking, and spends a lot of his time hanging out with his friends. This behaviour  has also affected his work life.  He’s also epileptic and has had a few seizure episodes. As a result she’s been advising him to slow down on the drinking but he never heeds her advice. 

Ask A Man 29 Jul '26: 'Can we work through our religious differences?'

Anonymous and his partner have been  together for 8 months.  They recognised early on in their relationship that they have differences in terms of their religious beliefs but continued with their relationship. She’s tried to follow his religion but it hasn’t really worked out and she’s told him that she sees God differently to how he sees God.  They are now in conflict over this and are not seeing eye to eye. He’s not sure if their relationship will survive but he loves her a lot. 

Ask A Man 28 July '26: 'I love him but we're struggling to agree on marriage & kids'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years.  They met during a tumultuous period in both their lives as he was going through a divorce when they met and months into their relationship she lost her mother.  This meant that there was a lot of trauma bonding early in their relationship, however, as they healed from their difficult situations, they started to get into a lot of conflicts because of their different outlooks on life including marriage, children and financial prospects. They’ve been separated for two months now, and she’s not sure if they should get back together.