Ask A Man 14 May '26: 'Does he really love me or just likes having her around.'

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated. They’ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman.  Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she’s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman.  She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around. 

Ask A Man 13 May '26: 'Has he always been toying with me?'

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career.  When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties. However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family.  They now have an 8 month-old baby but he’s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to. 

Ask A Man 12 May '26: 'Is he really my mine?'

Anonymous has been with a man she’s “in love” with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s.  The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either. She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure things out in his life. She’s wondering if she’s the only women in his life. 

Ask A Man 11 May '26: 'Can we fix our mess?'

Anonymous has been with his partner and the mother of his children for about 16 years now.  Things were generally fine between them until they had their first child in 2017, and says there was a rift between them and their families. They were able to get through all of that and even had their second child in 2021.  In 2023 he caught her cheating when he saw her kissing another man. She initially denied this but they ended up breaking up.  He moved out of their home and went back to his family home. Things fell apart in both their lives and he invited her to come stay at this family home with their children. 

Ask A Man 08 May '26: 'Is she still upset about my cheating?'

Anonymous met a lady back in 2018 and things moved quickly between them, as they even moved in together after only a month of dating.  He cheated on her at some point in the relationship but they were able to get past this. After she moved to another city her attitude towards him changed, even when she moved back she was just not the same person any more and was very distant.  She broke things off with him last year and they went their separate ways. Months later she called him and they are now back together but things are a bit dry between them. 

Ask A Man 07 May '26: 'My partner is obsessed with Instagram "baddies".'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now and they’ve known each other for about 10 years.  She says he’s a great partner and does most things in their relationship right however, the problem they have is social media.  He follows a lot of “baddies” and is always liking pictures of half naked women who are posing provocatively. She notes that it’s also women that look nothing like her, which leaves her wondering if that’s what he actually prefers.  She’s confronted him about this behaviour and while he’s said he would change, he hasn’t. A week ago she tried to make him account for this but he got upset and they haven’t spoken since.

Ask A Man 6 May '26: 'Shenanigans at church'

Anonymous and her partner, guy no.1, have been together for about 11 years now.  She says they met at church and when they started dating she didn’t realise that he was dating other women in their church. This complicated things between them and she ended up breaking things off with him and started dating guy no.2, who was dating her guy no.1’s side-girl.  She fell pregnant with guy no.2’s child but things didn’t workout there and guy no.1 wanted her back despite the fact that she was pregnant with another men’s child.  He took her in with her three children, including children from her previous marriage and the child she has with guy no.2.  She says their relationship is now fine but he doesn’t seem to get along with her first born daughter.

Ask A Man 5 May '26: 'Why is he still in contact with his "former" side.'

Anonymous found out last year that her longterm partner had been having an affair with another woman for many years while they were together.  She broke up with him at that point but after months of separation he came back and persuaded her to get back together with him.  Their relationship has been great since getting back together, however, about a week ago, she found out that he’s still in contact with the lady that led to their breakup…

Ask A Man 4 May '26: 'I Think My Partner's Side has Bewitched Him.'

Anonymous started dating a guy in 2017 and their relationship was ok for the most part in the beginning stages. Years later she fell pregnant and says during this time she lost interest in her partner and didn’t even want him to touch her. She believes this behaviour drove him into the arms of another woman and he also ended up impregnating her.  She found out about this, they worked through it and continued with their relationship, however, he can’t seem to let this other woman go.  Anonymous feels like she’s cast a spell on him as he’s changed a lot since being with her, and is not only neglecting their relationship, but he’s also neglecting his career and life in general.

Ask A Man 30 April '26: 'He's dating someone else, but my prophet says he's meant for me.'

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been dating her current partner for about 8 months now. She says this partner fits the description of the person a prophet once told her she would meet one day At some point in their relationship she found evidence that he had someone else, and he confessed to this after she confronted him about it.  She tried to break-up with him after this revelation but she went back to consult the same prophet who told her she can’t leave him as he is the one for her.

Ask A Man 29 April '26: 'Is my wife still into me or not?'

Anonymous cheated on his partner two years into their relationship back in 2014. They went through therapy following this incident but the process led to him finding out that she had cheated on him as well.  They moved on with their relationship but he says she continued to bring up his cheating and their relationship broke down, when he took ill, they separated.  Things were fine between them during the separation and they would even get intimate during this time.  They got back together after the completion of his new house, but he says they live separate lives in the same house. To the public it seems they have the perfect relationship but nothing is happening at home, even sexually.

Ask A Man 28 April '26: Why is my partner not interested in sex with me?'

Anonymous says her relationship is generally fine but their sex life is problematic. She says she’s the one who always initiates, but he often rejects her advances towards him. This has been a problem for years in their relationship and she's not sure how to live with his lack of sexual interest. 

Ask A Man: MMA26 Edition - Part 2

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

Ask a Man: MMA26 Edition Part 1

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

Ask A Man 22 April '26: 'Am I over-focusing on our new baby and ignoring my partner?'

Ask A Man 21 April '26: 'Why do my partner's keep dying?'

Anonymous lost her husband in 2018, she then dated someone new, but they also passed away in 2025.  Following the passing of her second husband, she found out that he had been unfaithful towards her and had a side. These experiences have affected her perspective on love and relationships, as she wonders whether she’s meant to be in a relationship.

Ask A Man 20 April '26: 'I'm tired of my partner's lack of hygiene.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for a while now and says their relationship is generally great and he’s a good partner to her.  The problem she has with him is his lack of good personal hygiene, as she says he doesn’t take regular baths, everything smells and he doesn’t even take care of his living environment.

Ask A Man 17 April '26: 'Is he having an affair with the mother of his child?'

Anonymous is pregnant and she recently found the mother of her partner’s child at his house and was left confused by this situation.  She says they were naked when she arrived in the morning but they were in between taking baths. She confronted him about this but he claimed that it’s the mother of his child, she’s in town because their child is sick and she needed a place to sleep…

Ask A Man 16 April '26: 'My wife watch me nearly die and didn't help.'

Anonymous is in his early 50s and has been married to his wife for 20 years now.  He has been diagnosed with a disease that causes acid refluxes that lead to him choking in his sleep. He spoke to his wife about what to do if this happens while their sleeping but he says there was an instance in which it occurred, however, as he choked, she just looked at him and didn’t assist him. He also feels like she’s not interested in being intimate with him, as he’s the one who’s always initiating while she never does.  He recently fell illl….

Ask A Man 15 April '26: 'She makes me feel like I'm not good enough for her.'

Anonymous and his partner recently  separated after facing some issues in their relationship. His partner is now back in his life and they are now back together.  The issues that led to the break down of their relationship don’t seem to have been resolved and they keep getting back to into the same conflicts and arguments.  Anonymous says they’ve gone through a lot together and he wants to work on this relationship but he is now wondering if there is a way forward.