THE LETTER (GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach WWW.BRIANMHLANGA.COM & REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counselor COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA

Dear Mapaseka I am a 45 year old woman with a 10 year old son. My main focus in life is work as i am a sole provider to my family, made up by my mother and siblings. My 38 year old sister and her 14 year old daughter live with me and my brother stays with his wife at my mother’s house, along with their children. In everything i do, i always have to consider them and never put myself first. I took a loan for my sister in order to pay for her child’s school fees after she broke up with the child’s father and came to live with me. I am the one paying for the loan as she keeps telling me her part time job salary is not sufficient to cover it but promises to eventually pay. I too am a single mom and struggle to even afford all of my son’s required uniform at school. I am even budgeting for a decent tablet for school. I have been dating my man for over a year and he often visits me at my place and my sister is not welcoming to him. He has suggested that i move in with him in order to assist with my finances and he says that my my sister could move back to my mother’s house in the North West, we are living In Bloemfontein. This would help me enormously but i feel so much guilt after sharing This with my sister. She is so angry and has told the whole family that I am chasing her and her child away all for a man that she saw cheating on me. When i asked her To consider taking her child to a public school she refused saying i need to give her more Time. The finances are killing me and i feel like im drowning; should i move in with my Boyfriend? He has a good relationship with my son.

–LIFE IN BALANCE - #PropertyWednesday ( GUEST: BUSISIWE MAHLANGU - CEO Winfred and Wolf Property Management

WHO REALLY RUNS YOUR COMPLEX? Trustees, Directors and the Power Behind The Gate. What is Your Experience of Living in a Complex.

MIND BODY AND SOUL- ENDOMETRIOSIS ( GUEST: KHANYISA STENGILE - Endometriosis Warrior, Kilimanjaro Summiteer, Comrades Marathon Medalist & DR. SIVIWE MILA - General Practitioner and Resident Life Love and All Medical Expert

March is Endometriosis Awareness Month, a global campaign to raise awareness, reduce stigma, and encourage earlier diagnosis for the disease, which affects 10% (around 200 million) of women worldwide. This year’s theme is 'Endometriosis Doesn't Wait'. Endometriosis doesn't wait whilst you're trying to get a diagnosis or access care. It doesn't wait for your career. Tonight we feature a woman who is known as the #EndoWarrior; a Runner, a Professional and an advocate for women’s health.

RELATIONSHIP TUESDAY- Workplace Balance / Life In Balance ( GUEST: JULIA MAKHUBELA - Founder and CEO of 54TwentyFour www.54twentyfour.co.za

How Do you Define your Relationship with your Colleagues & How do you manage Conflict?

MONDAY MENDAY -Is There a Reward to Being a Step Father? ( GUEST: BONGANI LUVALO - Author A Father, A Stranger: Mzantsi’s Memoirs of Fatherhood and Ntliziyo Ungumkhohlisi : Falling in Love with an It Girl WWW.COOLDADSFOUNDATION.CO.ZA @Bongani_Luvalo on Instagram

Is There a Reward to Being a Step Father? What is your experience of being a step father and being raised by a step father. 

OPENLINE MONDAY- On Sinenhlanhla’s Mind : Stories Making Headlines ( GUEST: SINENHLANHLA MNGUNI - Director at SN Mnguni Attorneys 072 236 6730 / SN MNGUNI ATTORNEYS INC info@mnguniinc.co.za

THE HOT SEAT ( GUEST: DR. PATIENCE MLENGANA - Founder of International Leading Women and Convenor of the Women Breaking Barriers Summit

2026 marks the 70th anniversary of the 1956 women's march to the Union Buildings. This year we will continue to celebrate and honour women as we countdown to the remembrance of these brave women who marched on the 9th of August. Tonight we feature Dr. Patience Mlengana; a prominent South African business powerhouse, ordained pastor, international speaker, and author recognized as a trailblazer in leadership and women's empowerment; ahead of her Women Breaking Barriers Summit.

AFRICAN SPIRITUALITY - The Benefits of QUIET TIME ( GUEST: GOG’ BOJOUR TEXT (NOT CALL GOGO) ON 076 799 1303 WWW.GOGBOJOUR.CO.ZA

In a busy buzzing world; we need to check in with ourselves regularly; what does quiet time do for us? How does a lack of connection with self affect our energies and the ability to hear messages from our guardian angels?

THE LETTER- ( GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach WWW.BRIANMHLANGA.COM & REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counselor COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whatsapp INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA

Dear Mapaseka I’ve been thinking a lot about how quickly people can form opinions about you. I recently started seeing someone who, on paper, seemed like a good match. He presented himself as family-oriented, grounded, and open-minded. When I shared that I’m a mother, he reassured me that it wasn’t an issue. Things were going well until he came to visit me in my space for the first time. That afternoon, I was outside with a friend while the kids played nearby. It was relaxed. It was home. It was familiar. But instead of greeting me, he reacted strongly to what he saw. He expressed disapproval about adults having a drink while children are present. He didn’t ask questions. He didn’t try to understand the context. He simply made his judgement clear and left. After that, communication stopped. Now I’m sitting with this question: When two people come from different environments and value systems, how do you know whether it’s a dealbreaker... or just a misunderstanding that needed a conversation? Did he overreact? Or did we simply see parenting and lifestyle through completely different lenses? I’m trying to decide whether I was rejected... or redirected.

LIFE IN BALANCE ...Who Is The Pillar in Your Family? ( GUEST: MBULELO MAYIKANA - Author of “Choices and Decision Making”; Founder of Contemporary Conversations WWW.MBULELO.CO.ZA &KEFILWE MOJAPELO - Psychotherapist, Social Worker and and Family Law Mediator WWW.KMPSYCHOSOCIAL.CO.ZA

Who Is The Pillar in Your Family? Are you the leader and backbone of your clan? Are you willing to Follow the leader?

MIND BODY AND SOUL - HEALTH OPENLINE AND tomorrow is WORLD HPV DAY (HPV is the human papillomavirus) ( GUEST: DR. SIVIWE MILA - General Practitioner and Resident Life Love and All Medical Expert

RELATIONSHIP TUESDAY- LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ( GUEST: COACH CATHY - Life Coach, NeuroLinguistic

I am a divorcee who lives alone; and I work part time jobs and as soon as i have money i drink heavily and end up wasting money and having regrets the next day. How have you found a new purpose after divorce?

MONDAY MENDAY - (GUEST: BONGANI LUVALO - Author A Father, A Stranger: Mzantsi’s Memoirs of Fatherhood and Ntliziyo Ungumkhohlisi : Falling in Love with an It Girl WWW.COOLDADSFOUNDATION.CO.ZA @Bongani_Luvalo on Instagram

Are men allowed to not bring you to their house during the dating period? or it’s only women that must protect their space and privacy? The Men are asking...

OPENLINE MONDAYS - On Hlengiwe’s Mind - Parenting Children at Tertiary and Recent Graduates ( GUEST: - HLENGIWE ZWANE - Clinical Psychologist

THE HOT SEAT (GUEST: REFENTSE SHINNERS - Cricket South Africa Public Affairs Executive

Cricket South Africa and The Proteas Women are taking a powerful stand against one of South Africa’s most critical societal scourge: gender-based violence (GBV), with the hosting of the annual Black Day Event on Sunday 1st March 10am Kingsmead Stadium Durban

AFRICAN SPIRITUALITY - SPIRITUAL HUSBAND with GUEST: KHEHLA MANJORO - Healer

We received a letter from Mmabatho Dear Mapaseka, I am in need of HELP. Years ago my daughter asked me to accompany her to her dad's graveyard. That was the mistake I did. When we arrived there, we started by cleaning. After we said goodbye; my daughter asked me to give her privacy, not knowing she took the sand and told her dad that she is taking him home to where he belongs. I was surprised when suddenly this ghost came to my bed to sleep as if we are husband and wife. I need help on how to get rid of this ghost. What I have noticed is that it is getting rid of the man I love. Sepoko sena Mapaseka, se mpakela sefifi. I can't leave my life like this. Sentshenyetsa bophelo

THE LETTER ( GUEST: BRIAN MHLANGA – Life and Leadership Coach WWW.BRIANMHLANGA.COM & REITUMETSI MTHEMBU – Registered Counselor COUNSELLING WITH REITUMETSI: Whattsapp Call INFO@REITUMETSEWELLNESS.CO.ZA

Dear Mapaseka I need to make a decision between two women; for the life of me i am struggling to choose. I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years and she has 2 kids from a previous relationship. She is very supportive, loving and always available for my Needs. I am attracted to her, our sex life is great, i get along with her young kids But the dad of the kids is too involved for my liking; as in he wants to be around her house too often. And her family over burdens her for financial support. I have saved up for lobola, proposed and have an upcoming meeting with her family; I met someone new. As in 6 months ago and she has completely blown my mind. She is in her mid 20’s with no kids. Im 36; she is ambitious, a successful entrepreneur, and i can see a great financial future with her. I met her through my work and we have a lot in common but she does not look after me as my fiance. She is very independent and doesn't even cook. I am attracted to both of these women and love them for different reasons. I would like to have children with someone who also has no children like me. I am simply confused and would like to ask you...what makes wife material? Especially in the times we live in?

LIFE IN BALANCE #PropertyWednesday GATED COMMUNITY or FREE STANDING HOMES... Which Option is for You? ( GUEST: BUSISIWE MAHLANGU - CEO Winfred and Wolf Property Management

Gated Communities offer enhanced security, amenities, and a "lock-up-and-go" lifestyle with higher, managed costs, while free-standing homes provide maximum privacy, autonomy over property modifications, and no HOA fees, but require independent maintenance and security. Gated communities often yield higher resale values, whereas free-standing homes offer more space and fewer strict rules. Gated Communities (Security & Convenience) Pros: Superior, 24/7 security (access control, cameras), shared amenities (parks, pools, gyms), lower maintenance (landscaping), and stronger community, which often leads to higher resale value. Cons: Higher property prices and levy/HOA fees, strict rules/regulations, potential lack of privacy, and, sometimes, limited space or smaller erf Free-Standing Homes (Privacy & Freedom) Pros: Greater privacy with no shared walls, full ownership over renovations and garden design, no homeowners' association (HOA) fees, and typically more space. Cons: Higher responsibility for maintenance and security, no shared facilities, and potentially lower resale value appreciation compared to secure estates.

MIND BODY AND SOUL - MIND & SOUL ( GUEST: GUGU MBUKU (also known as Pastor G) - Author “I Had To Leave To Live” A Journey of Courage, Transition, and Holistic Living (in-studio) WWW.GUGUMBUKU.ORG

Are You Stuck in Survival Mode? How long have you been in this state and are you ready to turn your life around? We are joined by the Author of “I Had To Leave To Live” A Journey of Courage, Transition, and Holistic Living Gugu Mbuku.

RELATIONSHIP TUESDAY- Do We Love People for Who They Really Are? ( GUEST: KEFILWE MOJAPELO - Psychotherapist, Social Worker and and Family Law Mediator WWW.KMPSYCHOSOCIAL.CO.ZA &LEROY TAU - Author of “Confessions of a Broken Man,”; “Decoding The Love Code” and his latest book “Intimacy that Satisfies” For More info - Reach out to Leroy on 068 464 3167 and @LEROYTAU on Facebook

Loving people for who they are means accepting their full selves—flaws, strengths, and quirks—rather than an idealized version or what they provide for you. While true, deep love embraces the individual, human connection often blends this acceptance with how people make us feel, the similarity-attraction effect, or the comfort they bring